Monday, August 1, 2011

7 tips on how to save your realtionship

We all have been here before. A seemingly good relationship starts to fall apart because of neglect, and lack of consideration for another. Love alone sometimes isn't enough to keep relationships from breaking up, but a healthy dose of positive action with that love ...can be the difference between happily ever after, and the long path of loneliness.

Tip #1. Keep a positive mindset.  Couples get back together ALL the time, regardless of their situation.  Staying hopeful and changing your attitude may be the first step in changing the whloe course of your relationship.

Tip #2. Don't be pushy.  The worst thing you can do is be pushy towards your partner and have them react negatively.  Don't be push the situation.  Be structured in saving your relationship.

Tip #3. Learn to communicate your ideas and points in a manner that is easy to be heard.  This ties in with being pushy.  You know how your partner is and you know how they react, you have to "sneak in" the relationship fixing stuff in a positive way so it's taken much better.

Tip #4. Bring in the old great memories!  Go out together if you can and relive some of your memories that brought you together.  Remember how special you are together, and more importantly, remember WHY you are so special to each other.

Tip #5. Smile!  Smiling actually makes you feel better.  Smile at your spouse.  Make them smile back.  Things are hard, but you both are stronger together. 

Tip #6 Normal touch is very important too!  Touching actually causes chemical reactions inside your body!  Make sure that you set these off.  Remember why you are meant for each other.  Touch each other, make each other feel good.  Hug each other.  Hugging does wonders.  It's the simple stuff that saves a relationship.

Tip #7. Talk with knowledgeable trusted mediators in good relationships.  Having both sides being able to freely express themselves to friends can make things come full circle and have your issues known among each other. 

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